Apr 19th 2014 by 1000daysofsumme • 55 Questions • 2039 Points
My short bio: My name is Tom (short for Tomislav) and I am from Croatia. I have been traveling for the past couple of years, alternative style - hitchhiking, couchsurfing, camping, volunteering. I visited five continents, I sailed across one ocean, and I just came back home - with a book about how it all started.
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bus rides in Pakistan and Bangladesh, few hitchhiking episodes where the driver almost crashed. but probably the scariest was sailing across the Indian ocean, on a 45-feet sailing boat.
Which was the least favourite of the places you visited? Also what odd jobs did you do?
border of Iran and Pakistan.
I played the guitar on the streets, I drove a rickshaw, I painted one hotel, I diverted the pedestrians, was a hotel manager, once even a pot dealer (unsuccessful one).
Europe (half of the continent), Asia (Turkey, Iraq, Iran, Pakistan, India, Nepal, Bangladesh, Thailand, Malaysia), Australia, Indian ocean (Christmas Island, Cocos Islands, Mauritius), Africa (RSA, Swaziland, Mozambique, Malawi, Tanzania, Kenya), South America (Peru, Chile, Ecuador)
What were your first steps to getting out there? I want to do this a lot, but I don't know where to start.
well, hosting people via couchsurfing was definitely the first step - because I had no idea people actually travel that way. and then one day I just went to the pay tolls on the exit of my city, had some friends waiting for me in Sofia (800 km away), and I just raised my thumb. the rest is history :D
the more remote, the friendly. except in some well known tourist places, most of them are all about the money, money, money.
generally speaking, people out there are just AMAZING!
most of the people around the world speak English, so that helped a lot. in South America I learned Spanish so that helped even more.
but generally, body language is sufficient.
it was either that or get a job, 30 year loan for some apartment, wife, kids.
I love hearing about stories like this, it's truly inspiring. What motivated you to explore the world? As a female who would love to try this, would you consider it dangerous considering the potential of encountering dangerous people?
the mail motivation was that gut feeling that there is more to life than the one I was having back home.
it would definitely be more dangerous, but I know few girls that travel by themselves. I would probably suggest first traveling with someone, and then see how it goes.
Ever have any "why the hell am I doing this" moments where you just wanted to give up?
actually, just once, when I was in Africa. then I went back home, attended my brothers wedding, but in 2 months time, I was back on the road.
Who was the most memorable (in a positive way) person you met?
Who was the most memorable (in a negative way) person you met?
positive - so many of them, but there was this Hungarian guy who is traveling with only his guitar and few minor things, doesnt even have a backpack. some of his stories were just amazing.
negative - police/army on border of Iran and Pakistan - they kept me for 3-4 days there, with no reason.
Does it bother you in any way that you miss things that require an entry fee, like museums or other attractions?
not that much, since I dont enjoy art that much. but I did go to some places that require entry fee (like Uluru in Australia - LOVED IT, or Taj Mahal in India - didnt like it)
Would you like to eventually live in one of the countries you visited? If so, which one?
definitely. first that comes to mind is India, or maybe Australia.
. what is your opinion on going luggage free versus back packing ? Also unusual bit of advice you'd would have for your younger self when you started this travelling thing back then? (Uncommon advice you wish you had )
I always had a 15kg backpack with me, and I dont think I would ever travel luggage free. I need some clean clothes, tooth paste, deodorant, etc.
an advice for younger me? hmmm. to write down more details!
of course! not many, but still...
there were a lot of those, but one of them was probably smoking opium on the border of Iran and Pakistan.
This right here is one of the biggest reasons I love Reddit.
well, we bumped into one another when we were both hitchhiking across Australia, shared couple of rides together, and then after a month or two I saw him in one park in Melbourne :)
of course, we went for couple of beers!
there was one ride in australian outback, I was riding on the back of the pick up, and when the driver started pulling over in the middle of nowhere, I thought that was it. but it turned out he wanted to take a leak.
I've always wanted to do something similar to this and the biggest question I usually have is how did you maintain your hygiene?
Was it difficult to find a place to shower?
nope - I use couchsurfing a lot, and that means that shower is almost always available. when not, you have wet tissues, and many public toilets :)
and sea, rivers, lakes...
thats always a hard one to answer because there were so many, but there is the place I kinda liked the most - Shiva Garden, Varkala, India.
Who's got the best food? And the worst? Be specific. I'm hungry.
my first guess would be Thailand and India, for the best one!
and the worst...dunno - England? :D
Are you going to continue doing it?
Also, what were some of the best experiences? Did you meet many great people?
Im not sure I will continue to travel in that way. since I wrote a book now, next few months will be all about that, and when the winter comes, probably move down south with my girlfriend.
I got tired of moving too fast, changing places without knowing then properly. I will always travel, just in a different way.
its not that hard, there are 3 major expenses when you travel: transport, accommodation, food. you have hitchhiking (free), couchsurfing and camping (free), and there is only food left. you eat supermarket food, but you can also find some work where food is included.
What advice would you give someone wanting to follow in your footsteps?
don't follow my footsteps - make your own :)
but the main thing is to set your priorities, and just do what you want to do. traveling the world is not the hardest thing. you have to sacrifice some things like friends, comfort, and adjust to all kind of situations like hunger, cold, etc.
but if you want to experience it, there is nothing but the decision preventing you to do so.
That was one hell of an experience. And it gained you entrance into the club "of the different". Which peoples most surprised you? Maybe you had a pre conceived notion, but it was far off the mark.
I have to say probably people from "dangerous" countries, like Iraq, Iran and Pakistan. you think they are terrorists, and at the end they end up being nicest people in the world, willing to give you the last piece of their dinner.
I had a pretty normal life back home - studying, working as a stockbroker, had a steady relationship. but then the financial crisis came, I started at that time to host couchsurfers (over 150 of them), and when I listened their stories, that was it - I had to try it out for myself.
first I traveled around Croatia and Balkans, a bit in Europe, and when I was done with my uni, I took my backpack, and went on RTW trip.
Couchsurfing question: How do you find decent hosts? Seems like it would be difficult to trust going to some random people's homes
well, I have to tell the truth - lately its been much harder.. usually I send one or two requests, after reading profiles of people I want to surf with. but I hosted 150 people in my house, and I have no problem with trusting people.
I'm guessing you needed computer and Internet access for this kind of trip. Did you have a computer with you or did you depend on local Internet cafes? What did you do when you were somewhere remote without access?
since I am a freelance writer, I had a light laptop with me all the time, and most of the time I used wifi from my hosts. in some remote ares I couldnt do anything, so I just hanged out with locals more than usual.
Thanks for answering. But haha, I didn't really mean how did you entertain yourself without the Internet, more how did you find your next or the next one after that hosts if you couldn't get online?
in poor countries I havent used CS that much, I could afford to spend couple of dollars on accommodation.
What did your friends and family think when you proposed your idea? Did they think you were crazy?
they still do.
first of all, I live in very conservative country, and my family is very traditional. so at the beginning I never had their support. but as the time went by (I was sending emails to my mum almost every day!), they kinda grew accustomed to my life style.
but now they are happy that I am home :)
Did you want your old life back at any point on your journey?
not really, I was just once sick of it, and wanted to go back home, so I did. but then again, I was back on the road in no-time.
I will never have my old life back, because it changed irreversibly when I went on the road.
How old were you when started your long term? And how did you manage with all the visas? I heard Australia is pretty hard to get into if you don't have a lot of money.
I was 26 when I started my RTW trip. visas were not that big of a problem, except for the ones I had when I was departing Croatia - Iran, Pakistan, India. I got an australian one online, and I faked my bank account.
Now that you've done something few other people will experience. What's next for you?
this book I wrote.
and then, when I publish it, it will be time for some planning - maybe settle down with my girlfriend, maybe go travel a bit more, maybe write another book - who knows?
this is awesome.
if you had 10$ a day. what percent of your money did you spend on what? like, if you had 10$, would you spend 5$ on food, 2$ on transportation, 3$ on something else?
i hope that makes sense.
of course :)
40% went on food and drinks 20% went on booze and weed 15% on transportation (I flew and drove in buses/trains couple of times) 15% on accommodation (in some cheaper countries) 10% for the rest (some souvenirs, entrances to some cultural things)
people that I hosted in my city via couchsurfing, and maybe a book or two.
Truly inspiring! Hope to do something like this one day. How did the trip change who you are/your personality? Views, beliefs etc. thanks!
my prejudices fell just down the drain. I dont trust media, and scary stories people tell - "I heard it from one guy". I am much more grateful for food, shelter, friends. I believe in kindness of strangers, much more than before. thus, I am nicer towards strangers myself.
nope, I was always much eager to explore hot places.
How often did you go out and experience the night life? I imagine it would have been difficult on such a low budget.
maybe twice. I really cant stand night life, even in my own city. I usually went to sleep before midnight. but, I do love house parties, when we sit on couches, and talk about the meaning of life.
well, that last trip that I did was actually called "1000 Days of Summer", and since my book is about the beginnings, it was logical that I call it "1000 Days of Spring".